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Woman to Woman: Notes from the Islands
"Woman to Woman: Notes from the Islands” is a heartfelt reflection on Pacific womanhood - exploring solidarity, self-worth, resilience, and the quiet courage it takes to choose yourself, for the good of your village, and beyond.
Nessah
Jul 20, 20254 min read
The Overachiever Trap: Reflections from a Firstborn Daughter in the Pacific
Caught in the cycle of doing it all? The Overachiever Trap: Reflections from a Firstborn Daughter in the Pacific explores the unspoken pressures of perfection, duty, and identity faced by eldest daughters. A powerful personal lens on cultural expectations, ambition, and breaking free.
Nessah
Jun 6, 20254 min read
Further to Crenshaw, A Reaction to Dr Ceridwen Sparks’ 'A Tale of Two Worlds' as a Young Pacific Woman in Development (Part 2)
In the first part of this series, I spoke about Crenshaw and all the emotions evoked, from reading her research and thoughts on...
Nessah
May 22, 20254 min read
Understanding Crenshaw: A Young Pacific Woman's Perspective (Part 1)
As a young Pacific woman navigating life in today’s world, I often find myself reflecting on the complexities of identity, race, and...
Nessah
Apr 12, 20254 min read
The #SevenTruths Series: Unpacking Perceived Cultural Norms
As a young Pacific woman of Solomon Islands (and i-Kiribati) descent, I am embarking on a journey to unravel the intricacies of my...
Nessah
Sep 30, 20243 min read
biggest lessons I've learnt in development in the Pacific
I sat through a Zoom meeting today on ' The Role of Traditional and Local Knowledge for Climate Resilience in Pacific Communities ' that...
Nessah
Aug 13, 20246 min read
Leaving Family for Studies: Coping with the Emotions
So I took a pause from blogging - because, Life. And some huge career changes. ... Like resigning after working for ten (yes, I am also...
Nessah
Oct 8, 20235 min read
A tale of two cultures
Yes I went there... have you read Dickens' book 'A Tale of Two Cities'? But I'm not speaking metaphorically throughout this blog on...
Nessah
Jun 18, 20233 min read
"God is On the Bathroom Floor"
by Jane Marczewski ("Nightbirde") I saw a post shared by one of my Facebook friends of Nightbirde singing - and the entire performance...
Nessah
Jun 18, 20214 min read
The 'financial feminist' label, deconstructed
On my IG profile I declare myself many things - a book lover, a [newbie] crocheter - but most importantly, for me - a financial feminist....
Nessah
Jun 16, 20212 min read
Gender & COVID - Part II: The 'Intentional Invisibility Syndrome'
In my previous blog, I spoke of International Women's Day (or IWD) in retrospect and the changes that have happened this year alone. They...
Nessah
Jun 2, 20214 min read
Gender & COVID - Part I: IWD21 in retrospect
2021: I really DID have high hopes for this year - not that I thought COVID would be over, but I hoped that we would be coming over the...
Nessah
Jun 2, 20212 min read
BGM's Crochet Niche
Yes to new hobbies! I've always side-eyed my mum growing up, while she crocheted everything from table covers to throw rugs to tiny...
Nessah
Feb 18, 20212 min read
Alternates to 'I love you'
In the furor since Valentine's Day, I thought this would be something nice to reflect on. As a control freak, who's slightly OCD and a...
Nessah
Feb 16, 20212 min read
What is your ultimate toxic trait?
Many of my blogs are reflections and thoughts I've written down over the years in a million notebooks and I've finally put my foot down...
Nessah
Feb 15, 20214 min read
Minding the Gap
In this blog, I wanted to discuss the insecurities of a young Pacific woman - particularly those of one that has recently graduated and...
Nessah
Aug 10, 20205 min read
Comes the Dawn
— Jo Anne Kurman After a while you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul, And you learn that love...
Nessah
Jul 9, 20201 min read
Dear Planet Earth
-Kami Marland Gilmour "Dear Planet Earth and Fellow Human Beings… I’ve often wondered what would happen if the world experienced an...
Nessah
Jul 2, 20202 min read
My name shouldn't matter... 🦋 and yet...
My name shouldn't matter, I'm told it means 'Painted Beauty' And i don't know if that is directed towards me, Or if it is the perception ...
Nessah
Jul 1, 20202 min read
I've Learned ❤️
-Maya Angelou "I've learned that no matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow. I've...
Nessah
Jul 1, 20201 min read
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